Saturday, April 19, 2008

Movies and anger management

Submitted the eviol biol term paper yesterday,however dats not d end of the story..We have to review a paper written by somebody else,cmment on it and return d review by tuesday...we get our reviewed manuscripts and turn in d finished manuscript by friday...before dat i need to complete d drug design assignment and d stats assignment...d lab reprt needs to be completed..jus a few minor things,but still its status is "pending"...this time next week i shall be free,hopefully...saw a movie yesterday-"U me and hum"...nothing great bout the movie,considering its a rip off from The Notebook which i have heard is very good...why cant these ppl think for themselves rather dan borrowing somebody else's idea and repackaging it to suit indian tastes..Grow up ppl!!..anyways d movie has some really cheesy and risque dialogues..u start searching for d exit door or repeatedly start looking into ur watch almost willing d hour hand to take on d disposition of its faster brother....but no...d movie and d hour hand seem to have entered into a wicked pact of trawling at a pace dan makes a snail seem faster...they cud have atleast changed d male lead...he is one of d best actors we have around.but dude,looks matter...his is not d face dat makes ladies go weak in their knees and jelly brained...ahem...all said and done,i seem to have bashed d movie more dan wot it deserved...it's not dat bad...considering it turned out to b Waterworks Inc. for d company dat came wid me..they really have a low thresh-hold...its not dat i am a cold hearted,icy individual,but frankly speaking, d movie did nothing to move me to tears....d few instances dat i have felt an icy hand grab my heart and chilled my marrow have been wen i was reading The Kiterunner..dats one book u MUST read...
somebody said,i dont remember who,dat dont tell ur children not to get angry,teach them how to get angry...quite true...there are so many situations,i am sure many of us have faced,wen d situation compels us to explode in a grand exhibition of rage...impotent rage,i must say.the simple reason being,wot do u achieve by throwing ur tantrum?..if i be allowed to answer,i wud say nothing other dan wasting ur energy yelling...the ppl whom u r yelling at might not even give a damn bout it..they shall listen wid one ear and chuck it by d other and u turn out to be a spectacle for bystanders...forget about ppl who dont care bout d fact dat they have hurt u..they dont even matter..consider d consequences for those who care..wot if ur tantrums and short fuse end up in creating a distance between urself and them...the only thing a short temper or a tendency to not channelise ur rage does is alienate u from others by making dem walk a tight rope wen they deal wid u.....they will care for u but will always b wary of ur anger...its also important,i feel to sieve out the ppl dat shall make u angry wid full knowledge of wot they are doing,jus to see u blow urself and others to smithereens wid ur rage and d ones dat unintentionally step on ur toes...so as i said,its not about not getting angry,its about HOW to get angry....

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